FOR MEN: HOW TO MAKE YOUR WOMAN BEG YOU FOR REGULAR SEX

Guys This Is How To Make Your Woman Horny.

In any marriage setting, one of the things that gets a man excited and makes him feel like a real man is when his wife is all over him for sex.

It makes a man feel like a real man; a champion. But when the reverse is the case, he feels unfulfilled.
In reality, most men don’t get to the point where their wives practically and eagerly want to have sex with them. Rather, it is always the opposite; having to plead, pressurize, pamper, get moody, fight their wives for something that normally is for their mutual enjoyment. In worse cases, the resolve may be to rape her in order to have his sexual need fulfilled.
This is so because a large percentage of men have not discovered the secret of making a woman beg for sex. When a man discovers that secret, his wife, who seems uninterested in sex, will be practically seeking for opportunities to have sex with him.

This could range from cuddling him, giving him his favorite meals regularly, being ever ready to relieve his pains, taking pressures of life off him, sharing his burden and doing everything possible to keep him healthy. Really, there is no end to the sacrifices a wife can make to get her man to have sex with him. A woman will do all that for sex because her husband has discovered the secret I am about to share with you.

DOES YOUR BEST GUY FRIEND WANT SOMETHING MORE WITH YOU / OR DO YOU WANT SOMETHING MORE WITH HIM ???

Is Your Best Guy Friend Thinking of You With His Right Hand?

I’m one of those cynics who thinks it is really, really difficult for guys and girls to maintain platonic friendships. I think it works best when:

• One or both of the people is in a serious relationship. That makes the terms non-negotiable, and prevents unrealistic expectations from developing.
• All parties are friends with each other.
• There is no romantic or sexual history between you.
• One or both of you is gay.

In many cases, strong platonic friendships outlast other relationships. Suddenly you find that sexual tension has somehow sprung up in your friendship with your favorite guy. You may be psyched about it, or at least curious. You may be dreading it, if you know that you absolutely do not want to go there. The question I always ask women in these situations is: “Would you like to see his penis?” Often the answer is “Um, hmm, maybe?” Sometimes it’s “Ew!” If it’s an enthusiastic yes, then you’re off and running and you hardly need my advice.

I don’t really buy that guys put real time and effort into cultivating platonic friendships with women. They only do that with women they hope to hook up with. Most guys have platonic friendships with women whether they want them or not, and they don’t really need to go winning over new women to be best buds with. Besides, guys rely very heavily on each other for friendship; the world of male friendships has always been homo social.

I CAUGHT MY BOYFRIEND INBED WITH ANOTHER WOMAN

“I Caught Him In Bed with Another Woman!”

Dear Stephy,

I have been with my boyfriend for three years, and honestly can’t picture my life without him. Last week, though, I came home and found him in our bed, passed out with a naked woman. I had been staying at my place while my mother was in town. He knew I was coming home early that morning. That was the day we were planning on leaving to go on a 7-days getaway together.

Let me start by saying he’s not an idiot, because only an idiot or an uncaring dolt would have a girl spend the night when he knows his live-in girlfriend is coming home. He got intoxicated the night before, and I believe he is truly remorseful. But, I can’t help but wonder…why? Drunkenness is no excuse. He can’t remember the evening, so I made him call the woman to find out what happened. (Some back story: he met her at the gym and says she told him she was interested in him and he told her about me. He says they talked briefly every few nights over the phone.) He refused to call her in front of me, and called her when I wasn’t around to find out what happened. He told me they had sex on the sofa and in our bed without a condom, but also said he couldn’t finish, and passed out because he was so drunk. He has a drinking problem. Now, he swears he won’t touch alcohol unless I’m around, he’s moving to my house because I can’t stand to be in his, and he’s re-decorating his home.

I want to contact the woman, but I don’t want to betray his trust, because I know he wouldn’t want me to. I also know she likes him, and I probably can’t trust what she says either. I know there are three versions to every story: his version, her version, and then the truth. But, in my case…I don’t know that I’ll ever get the truth, and I want it to move on. He swears he feels nothing for her and that he’s the biggest idiot in the world. (I’m not arguing with that fact).

Where do I go from here? I want a life with him, but I don’t want to hurt myself. I love him, I want to believe him, but I’m scared. — SUZY

STRESS AT WORK

Tips to Reduce and Manage Job and Workplace Stress

While some workplace stress is normal, excessive stress can interfere with your productivity and impact your physical and emotional health. And your ability to deal with it can mean the difference between success or failure. You can’t control everything in your work environment, but that doesn’t mean you’re powerless—even when you’re stuck in a difficult situation. Finding ways to manage workplace stress isn’t about making huge changes or rethinking career ambitions, but rather about focusing on the one thing that’s always within your control: you.

Coping with work stress in today’s uncertain climate

For workers everywhere, the troubled economy may feel like an emotional roller coaster. "Layoffs" and "budget cuts" have become bywords in the workplace, and the result is increased fear, uncertainty, and higher levels of stress. Since job and workplace stress increase in times of economic crisis, it’s important to learn new and better ways of coping with the pressure.

Your emotions are contagious, and stress has an impact on the quality of your interactions with others. The better you are at managing your own stress, the more you'll positively affect those around you, and the less other people's stress will negatively affect you.

HOW TO MAKE SURE YOU DON`T FALL FOR A PLAYER

 Here are my rules for qualifying a man for your attention and affection

 (Don`t get me wrong ohh guys hahaha,I know all men are not players.This is for those who are lol)

1. Understand that he is in it for the sex.

All men are in it for the sex. The question is, are they open to the idea of being in a committed relationship? Men may not even know this themselves at first. Until you reach the point where you have established compatibility and real affection, you most operate under the assumption that he is not seeking anything more than sex.

2. Ignore what he says.

Men say a lot of things to flatter women. Players are obviously better at this than everyone else.

He’s really into it? Doubt it.

He is thinking about you all the time? Mmm-hmmm.

He would never do anything to hurt you? Never means in the next hour or so.

I’m not hooking up with anyone else right now. Literally, right now. Last night? Different story.

He is in sales mode. He wants P in V. Very few men are looking at you wondering if you would be a good mother. Obviously, if he says any of the following things and you get involved with him, you are beyond my help:

I don’t see what the big deal is about sex. Sex feels great, so why shouldn’t we just enjoy it?

I would be a terrible boyfriend.

I’m young, I want to have fun.

Call me if you want to hang out sometime.

etc.

HOW TO DETECT GOLD DIGGERS

How To Tell If A Girl Likes You For You Or Just Your Money

(ladies please don`t be offended i just have to put this out there...I have brothers and sons ohhh hahahaha)

It is of the utmost importance that you figure out how to tell if a girl likes you for you… or just your money. Honestly, it isn’t that difficult if you open your eyes and pay attention. Now, if you’re paid like the Donald Trumps of the world, you can afford to have a string of gold diggers that really like you for your “personality.” If, however, you’re making 2000 FRS a day doing customer service, a gold digger won’t have too far to dig before she breaks your back LOL. To avoid cancer of the wallet and the death of your pockets, here’s how to tell if a chick is feeling you or reaching for your bread.

Her conduct.

When a girl likes you, she’s more wrapped up in seeing you, not where she’ll see you. Get it? If she’s constantly asking you “Where are you taking me?” she probably isn’t into you. She’s into what you can do for her. If, however, she wants to know when you’re spending time together, not necessarily where, then she likes you. Now, this doesn’t mean you should be a cheap-ass all of the time, but watch her conduct when you are. She should be just as happy at a sandwich shop as she would at a five star restaurant… as long as she’s with you.

FIXING RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS WITH HUMOUR

Using Laughter and Play to Build and Maintain Successful Relationships

We've all heard that laughter is the best medicine, and it's true. Laughter relieves tension and stress,elevates mood, enhances creativity, and boosts energy. Laughter also plays an essential role in building strong, healthy relationships by bringing people closer together, creating intimacy, and resolving conflict and disagreements. Whether you’re dating or in a long-term relationship, you can learn to use humor and play to strengthen the bond between you and help you fix relationship problems.

The power of humor and laughter

Humor plays an important role in relationships from initial attraction to long-term commitment. In new relationships, humor can be an effective tool not just for attracting the other person but also for overcoming any awkwardness or embarrassment that arises during dating and the process of getting to know one another. In longer-term relationships, humor can keep things exciting, fresh, and vibrant. It can also help you overcome conflicts, disagreements, and the tiny aggravations than can build up over time and wreck even the strongest of relationships.

Sharing the pleasure of humor creates a sense of intimacy and connection between two people—qualities that define solid, successful relationships. When you laugh with one another, you create a positive bond between you. This bond acts as a strong buffer against stress, disagreements, disappointments, and bad patches in a relationship. And laughter really is contagious—just hearing someone laugh primes you to smile and join in on the fun. But don’t worry if you’re not naturally a lighthearted, humorous person—you can learn to access your playful side and develop your sense of fun.

ENJOY YOUR YOUTH

Having A fun Filled Youth


Many people in their prime would probably give you this advice. “Enjoy your youth.” This lesson may have been learned through their own life experiences. Its true that only when you’ve lost something, that is the only time you will see just how precious it was. In this case, time is something that you cannot get back. There is no rewind button nor a reset button for life. Every precious moment and opportunity is gone forever. And if you miss it then it will be something that you may regret for as long as you live. That is why it is wise to enjoy every waking moment while you can.

Live to The Fullest

I am not telling you to spend all your time partying…although it is a tempting thought. Living your life to the fullest means you do not waste any time. You plan your day well and prioritize doing things that matter most. Do not bury yourself in too much work. Yes you need to save money for the future, but remember that you are young now. You won’t be that way forever. Allow yourself to experience everything that a person your age should be experiencing. Take time out of your busy schedule to do this. Also, allot some party budget for yourself to have a little fun now and then.

TAKE YOUR SEX LIFE WITH YOUR PARTNER TO THE NEXT LEVEL

Enjoying a satisfying sex life

Key Points

• Whether the problem is big or small, there are many things you can do to get your sex life back on track.
• Communicating with your partner, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, availing yourself of some of the many excellent self-help materials on the market, and just having fun can help you weather tough times.

Sex. The word can evoke a kaleidoscope of emotions. From love, excitement, and tenderness to longing, anxiety, and disappointment—the reactions are as varied as sexual experiences themselves. What's more, many people will encounter all these emotions and many others in the course of a sex life spanning several decades.

But what is sex, really?

On one level, sex is just another hormone-driven bodily function designed to perpetuate the species. Of course, that narrow view underestimates the complexity of the human sexual response. In addition to the biochemical forces at work, your experiences and expectations help shape your sexuality. Your understanding of yourself as a sexual being, your thoughts about what constitutes a satisfying sexual connection and your relationship with your partner is a key factor in your ability to develop and maintain a fulfilling sex life.

Talking to your partner

Many couples find it difficult to talk about sex even under the best of circumstances. When sexual problems occur, feelings of hurt, shame, guilt, and resentment can halt conversation altogether. Because good communication is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship, establishing a dialogue is the first step not only to a better sex life, but also to a closer emotional bond. Here are some tips for tackling this sensitive subject.

Find the right time to talk

There are two types of sexual conversations: the ones you have in the bedroom and the ones you have elsewhere. It's perfectly appropriate to tell your partner what feels good in the middle of lovemaking, but it's best to wait until you're in a more neutral setting to discuss larger issues, such as mismatched sexual desire or orgasm troubles.

GOD WILL PROVIDE.

Always Trust In God And Have Faith.

Many times I’ve worried whenever I didn’t have enough money to take me through the next few days. There are times I worried whenever I lacked energy to accomplish a certain project at work. Still deep inside I knew it was wrong to worry or fear. Whenever I realize this, I pause for a while and pray…”Lord please give me what I need” And in the silence of my heart I always seem to hear a faint voice saying “Everything will be alright.”


Lift it up

In the Bible God sad “Cast your burdens upon me, those who are heavily laden. Come to me all of you who are tired of carrying heavy loads. For the yolk I will give you is easy and my burden is light. Come to me and I will give you rest.” Whatever it is the you consider as hardships or burdens, lift them up to the Lord and believe that things will get better soon. God doesn’t want you to suffer. He is willing to make things okay, if you just remember to call to Him for help.

EMPATHY

Put Yourselves In Others Shoes.

 

Today, we will be tackling an important concept and key ingredient of successful relationships. Whether we are talking of friendship, kin, or romantic relationships, EMPATHY is such an important word that will help maintain the health of your personal relationships. Empathy simply means trying to put oneself in the shoes of the other person in your life whom you consider significant. In layman’s terms, empathy means always considering the needs of others before your own needs, in an effort to understand them at the present moment. What the other person thinks and feels at present translates to the needs that he cannot communicate, and you have to tune in to the other person so as to understand the place he is coming from.

I didn’t understand empathy as deeply when I was younger. I only had a feel for it during my crazy days way back in college. Of course, life has a way of making you understand things that you need, and through the years, life handed me experiences which led me to become less concerned of my own welfare, and more concerned for other people’s well-being. This comes with a certain sense of maturity.