IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE OR WHO YOU MIGHT HAVE BEEN

You Are In Total Control Of Your Destiny

Most of us live with regrets and frustrations because of the opportunities that we have missed or the wrong decisions that we have made. There comes a point in anyone’s life when a realization of what he or she really wants to do in life becomes clear. After that, a sense of failure overcomes you because you think that you have missed your chance for that to happen.
But the truth is it’s never too late to be who you want to be or who you might have been. As long as you are live, there is always hope. And if you choose to reach for your dreams no matter what the consequences are, then it is very likely you will succeed.

Be Realistic

Now that you know what you want to do with your life, it is time to get to know the facts about the new career or life path you are to take. Most of the time things are a lot more difficult than we imagine them to be. Be realistic and think of the possible consequences of the actions you are to take. Consider your age, your health and your financial capabilities before taking any risks.

How Bad Do You Want It?

Now that you know that it can be done, ask yourself just how badly you want that change to happen in your life. You may just have one chance and there is no turning back after you take that step. How much are you willing to risk just to be able to get to where you want to be? If you are willing to give it all up for your dream then all you need to do now is make it happen.

CERVICAL CANCER

 What is cancer?
The organs and tissues on our body are constructed of cells. Cells in different parts of the body may look and work differently but most reproduce themselves in the same way. Cells are constantly becoming old and dying, and new cells are produced to replace them. Sometimes there is an uncontrolled growth of cells causing a swelling or a tumour.

Tumours can be benign or malignant.

Benign tumours are not cancerous because they do not spread to beyond the original tumour growth area, however, they may cause a problem by pressing on the surrounding organs. They can be removed by an operation and do not usually cause any further problems.

A malignant tumour is a growth (group) of cancer cells. Cancer is a general term to describe uncontrolled, abnormal growth and division of cells. Malignant tumours have the ability to spread beyond the original tumour growth. Cancer cells have the ability to travel from one part of the body to another via the blood or lymphatic system. Newly formed tumours are called metastasis or secondary cancer. Cancer cells are also able to invade and destroy other tissue around them.

 EDUCATION ON CERVICAL CANCER, 

 The cervix is the lower, narrow end of the uterus (the hollow, pear-shaped organ where a fetus grows). The cervix connects the uterus to the vagina (birth canal).

THE THIN LINE BETWEEN HOLDING ON AND LETTING GO

Domestic Violence


I have noticed that I can care for people and go all the way, but at the same time I tend to give up on people pretty easily. Especially when they treat me the way I would not treat them… very ironic! I do understand that there is a certain amount of vulnerability needed to connect with people, but pushing back against it is my defence against hurt. So I constantly find myself two- stepping to this dance of holding on and letting go.

                                                                           One of  the most difficult places to be in life is making a decision between holding on and letting go and it is the tug of war between them that leads to suffering. Thanks to Nigerian Blogs, I have a little insight about Tuface’s and Annie’s love story. Complicated for sure , but I find it interesting. I think her resilience is somewhat courageous but on the other hand, I cannot wrap my head around holding on to something that hurts so much. Which brings me to the question when exactly does one draw the line between holding on and letting go, to have a little more faith or give up? Another classic example is the plot of THE GREAT GATSBY. When love is involved, the distinction becomes somewhat blurry. It becomes very easy to have faith… but, what if letting them go is all the deliverance you need.

WHAT IS YOUR DEFINATION OF SUCCESS.

Money, Peace or Family! How Do You Define Your Success?

Recently, I was asked a question that had my tongue tied in knots. The question was simple, but as it demanded a straight forward answer, I realised it was not as simple as it sounds.
“What is your definition of success?”

                                        Not the world’s definition. Not the dictionary’s. Not my friend’s. Not my parents’. Not society’s. MY OWN definition of success.Sure, I had thought about success in terms of money making. If you’re rich, surely you must be successful. The question would then be: how rich is successful?

Ten million Frs CFA in your account? Hundred million? One billion?
There is of course family. I chipped in that success would also be about maintaining peace in your home. The question is: how can you define a peaceful family? A family where people mind their business or a family where people carry each other’s problems on their heads?

10 WAYS TO INSTANTLY BUILD SELF CONFIDENCE

Every Human Has That Confident Side. Bring Yours Out...

Self-confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits. Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Perception is reality 

the more self-confidence you have, the more likely it is you’ll succeed.

Although many of the factors affecting self-confidence are beyond your control, there are a number of things you can consciously do to build self-confidence. By using these 10 strategies you can get the mental edge you need to reach your potential.

Build self confidence

1. Dress Sharp. Although clothes don’t make the man, they certainly affect the way he feels about himself. No one is more conscious of your physical appearance than you are. When you don’t look good, it changes the way you carry yourself and interact with other people. Use this to your advantage by taking care of your personal appearance. In most cases, significant improvements can be made by bathing and shaving frequently, wearing clean clothes, and being cognizant of the latest styles.

This doesn’t mean you need to spend a lot on clothes. One great rule to follow is “spend twice as much, buy half as much”. Rather than buying a bunch of cheap clothes, buy half as many select, high quality items. In long run this decreases spending because expensive clothes wear out less easily and stay in style longer than cheap clothes. Buying less also helps reduce the clutter in your closet.

FOR MEN: HOW TO MAKE YOUR WOMAN BEG YOU FOR REGULAR SEX

Guys This Is How To Make Your Woman Horny.

In any marriage setting, one of the things that gets a man excited and makes him feel like a real man is when his wife is all over him for sex.

It makes a man feel like a real man; a champion. But when the reverse is the case, he feels unfulfilled.
In reality, most men don’t get to the point where their wives practically and eagerly want to have sex with them. Rather, it is always the opposite; having to plead, pressurize, pamper, get moody, fight their wives for something that normally is for their mutual enjoyment. In worse cases, the resolve may be to rape her in order to have his sexual need fulfilled.
This is so because a large percentage of men have not discovered the secret of making a woman beg for sex. When a man discovers that secret, his wife, who seems uninterested in sex, will be practically seeking for opportunities to have sex with him.

This could range from cuddling him, giving him his favorite meals regularly, being ever ready to relieve his pains, taking pressures of life off him, sharing his burden and doing everything possible to keep him healthy. Really, there is no end to the sacrifices a wife can make to get her man to have sex with him. A woman will do all that for sex because her husband has discovered the secret I am about to share with you.

DOES YOUR BEST GUY FRIEND WANT SOMETHING MORE WITH YOU / OR DO YOU WANT SOMETHING MORE WITH HIM ???

Is Your Best Guy Friend Thinking of You With His Right Hand?

I’m one of those cynics who thinks it is really, really difficult for guys and girls to maintain platonic friendships. I think it works best when:

• One or both of the people is in a serious relationship. That makes the terms non-negotiable, and prevents unrealistic expectations from developing.
• All parties are friends with each other.
• There is no romantic or sexual history between you.
• One or both of you is gay.

In many cases, strong platonic friendships outlast other relationships. Suddenly you find that sexual tension has somehow sprung up in your friendship with your favorite guy. You may be psyched about it, or at least curious. You may be dreading it, if you know that you absolutely do not want to go there. The question I always ask women in these situations is: “Would you like to see his penis?” Often the answer is “Um, hmm, maybe?” Sometimes it’s “Ew!” If it’s an enthusiastic yes, then you’re off and running and you hardly need my advice.

I don’t really buy that guys put real time and effort into cultivating platonic friendships with women. They only do that with women they hope to hook up with. Most guys have platonic friendships with women whether they want them or not, and they don’t really need to go winning over new women to be best buds with. Besides, guys rely very heavily on each other for friendship; the world of male friendships has always been homo social.